Funny, I've found that they don't suck on the surface, I've been getting to know them better or letting them in and being friendly and then they turn out to be flakes or they don't want to expend the same effort I already did. XP But I suppose working past even that, that yes, the first impression may have truth to it underneath, but they have to be willing to let me get there, now don't they? *Sighs*

I sooo miss the after club dinners, seriously. XD